I Know- Living in the Colorless Mundane

I Know- Living in the Colorless Mundane

I know. I know it’s hard to think after living life this far there might be something more. I know that thought dances around the edges of the brain. That one little thought can be so stinkin loud at times you wonder how no one else can hear it.

I know.

A couple days ago a video “short” rambled across my Facebook news feed. * how did we ever find cool things before Facebook?* Of course, because it’s animated, I had to watch it. The first few frames are way cute. And then. Quietly. The reality of this “short” crept up on my conscious mind. (you know that’s how the best videos work, right?)

I want to share this. Here. Today. I watched this story unfold and felt the tears sneak in. 

When creativity, joy… disappear. YOU step in. YOU create. Leave the colorless mundane void and step into a world filled with glorious color. The world truly needs YOUR color.

Art. Is a verb. 

 

 

The Very First Coloring Page!

The Very First Coloring Page!

So exciting!!!! I have wanted to do this FOR*EEVA!!!! And nOI AM! 

Here’s the plan! I’mma post a new colorin page every Monday.. just for you! Down load that baby and use it to propel yourself into a bright beautiful week! Here ya go!  *I haven’t even gotten to color this one yet!*  

 

AND… If you would like exclusive coloring pages delivered to your inbox weekly JUST to brighten it up give a click right here!  Otherwise, meet me here next Monday for another freebie! Yep! That’s the opportunity for TWO coloring pages a week! 

Dream Chasing and Why It Won’t Get You Anywhere

Dream Chasing and Why It Won’t Get You Anywhere

 Dream Chasing and Why It Won't Get You Anywhere. Yep. I said It. Your life is waiting for you to grab those dreams, pull them outta stardust land and wrangle them into reality. You CAN live your life by design and not default. www.sandykayemoss.com

Don’t follow your dreams.

There. I said it.

Shocking right? Especially, from me. I’m always all about, Dream big! Go for it! Build bigger than you are!

Yeah. Well…

Your dreams aren’t going anywhere- unless you do.

We act like and believe our dreams are these bits of stardust streaking across the night sky, waving at us to follow them. We think “Oh! We should chase this glimpse of glitter and it’s gonna to take us to a new amazing universe.” Unicorns! Rainbows! The whole Shebang!

Umm. Yeah. A dream is only a dream.. Seriously? We get caught up in the romance of it all. The poetic story line of love, won or lost- the bittersweet emotion of dreams unfulfilled or never attempted- plopped on the curb waiting for the trash truck cuz we never explored them.

A dream is only a glitzy, sparkly thought  dressed up in  “what if stilettos”.

It’s not going anywhere *especially in those shoes! . It’s not reality.

Dream Chasing and Why It Won't Get You Anywhere. Yep. I said It. Your life is waiting for you to grab those dreams, pull them outta stardust land and wrangle them into reality. You CAN live your life by design and not default. www.sandykayemoss.com

Is it recurring? Yep. Like teenage acne.

Is it nagging? Remember your mom? “You need to practice piano!” That kind of nagging!

Is it going to let ya to catch it? Nah. It’s gonna laugh at you when ya try. Because IT is not tangible. It’s a glimpse of what could happen. A peek at a desire that could become reality.

But, it does not exist. Sorry to rip all the magical fairy dust from the moonbeams you may have been riding on. I know… This is like the massive, over the handle bars crash at the bottom of the hill on the gravel covered road to rainbows and happy endings.

Follow your dreams! Chase your dreams! Nope, these cliches have nothing to do with actually making a difference in someone’s life- YOUR life. And I can tell ya it takes perseverance, hard work, ingenuity and time.

 

“Chasing a dream” is your exclusive, gold embossed invitation for excuses to move right in, get comfortable and hog all the cheetos!.

You want a quick trip to excuse land? You got it! Focus on chasing a dream. All the “I can’t because” reasons bubble up immediately. “I’m too old- too young- too poor- too sick- too busy… on and on.. The “If only’s” are draggin’ in right behind, invading your supposed reality with a vengeance- If only I were…  If only I had… If only I didn’t have…

 Dream Chasing

The chasing of the dream is living in the middle of a perception of what you think it would be like for the dream to come true. Not working in reality, daily putting the pedal to the medal to accomplish more, do more, become more, means you don’t have to be responsible to make anything happen. Perception is the thief of your future. That sneaky dude robs you of the now while keeping your future just out of reach.

Dream Chasing and Why It Won't Get You Anywhere. Yep. I said It. Your life is waiting for you to grab those dreams, pull them outta stardust land and wrangle them into reality. You CAN live your life by design and not default. www.sandykayemoss.com

SO! Yep, you can sit and chase that dream every minute in the cubicle at your job, behind the counter at your sales position or while your doin’ dishes. You’re no closer to changing your reality there than you are your dream. Dreams are not reality. They are ideas you never have to act on cuz they live in your head- rent free. There’s nothing compelling or forcing you to take that dream to fruition- its JUST a dream.

Going to work is not a dream. It’s reality. It’s reality to want a roof over your head, and food to eat and maybe some clothes to wear. When you stop looking at your dreams as pie in the sky- someday stardust and actually invest the time and effort into the idea… you’re no longer chasing a dream. Your creating a reality. Your living your life by design. 

Don’t chase your dreams. Create your reality that was sparked by a dream.